CChristmas
So
Christmas came and went, in three short days. It seems a lot longer
in the anticipation and preparation than its execution. I pent those
three days very happily ; with Daniel and friends on the
Tuesday, with Pat and her family in Beaumont on Wednesday and with
friends at my house on the Thursday. I even had dogs at Pat’s house
and I don’t think a Christmas is really complete without children
or dogs. Even one of the dogs was called Hugo ; what more could
I ask for ? Several days spent happily with friends (and dogs).
New
Year Thoughts
And
so I look now towards the new year. A new year is traditionally a
time for resolutions but I am bad at that. Probably I should make
some but I (cowardly?) prefer to adapt to the flow.
It
is also a time to look forward and, possibly, a time to reflect back.
I am fortunate in that I have a lot to look forward to.
Reflecting
back I have a number of regrets, bad decisions made or decisions not
made, but am consoled by someone famous saying that a life lived
without regrets is a life only half lived.
Spring
here is only two months away. And that is when I get going again on
gardening. It will be too early to do much but I will plant potatoes
and onions, sow lettuces and rocket and maybe beetroot and turnips.
The ground also will need some attention, weeding and the addition of
compost and manure. Hopefully then the narcissi and daffodils in
front of the house should be in full bloom. And I should have my book
on Mollans printed and available for distribution.
And
soon after will come those warm summer evenings when I can sit on my
balcony, a glass of Calvados to hand, and idly ruminate over esoteric
matters such as the anomalies in quantum physics or whether the
evolution of human civilisation has been linear, as most people seem
to believe, or cyclic as the Hindus do. Or maybe just on why I lost a
game of boules.
Reflecting
Back
To
hell withe the regrets, these are some of the high points. The
births of my two children, at both of which I was present, are
certainly two. My experience teaching at Summerhill school was
certainly another. A break in my working life gave me another:
back-packing overland to Bali. My career was already in IT, which
found me rather than me finding it. In 1965, having returned from
teaching in Senegal and having decided to have a break from teaching,
I was looking for employment and ICL offered a job. I took to IT like
a duck to water, wrote my first book and became a member of a NATO
think tank on software futures in four short years. And in 1966
England won the football World Cup. Those years were certainly a high
point. And then in the being called as an expert IT witness before
the UK parliament (select committee) and EU DG13 in Brussels were
certainly high points. So there have been many high points for which
I am grateful. But all that is now history. For any more high points
I have to look to the future.
New
Year Rant
I’ll
get this off my chest now. I intensely resent cell phones because of
the behaviour of most of their owners. I had to have one for my job
in the late 1990s, ditched it when I retired and then bought one a
few years ago because life had become too difficult without one. Now
I tell no one my number and keep it for emergencies. Why ?
A
key argument for cell phones is that you can always be in contact. It
follows that you can be in contact at the most inconvenient moments.
If that happens, what do you do ? In my experience the vast
majority of cell phone owners answer their phone. So if you are
playing a game and it’s your turn to play all others wait while you
answer ; if you are in the middle of a social gathering, you
leave the gathering or force others to share your conversation. If
you leave the wait for your return can be long. Why do I resent
this ? Because it shows a total lack of disrespect and
consideration for all others involved. And I have observed this
several times over the festive period, by otherwise kind and
considerate people. Maybe cell phones should be sold with a warning,
much as other devices are sold with safety warnings, that
inappropriate use can seriously adversely affect people’s opinion
of you. I I applaud all challenges to fixed ideas but manners and
respect remain bulwarks of civilisation if only because they
necessarily exclude needless confrontation and blatant hate.