Cultural
Differences: France
Friend Jo mentioned
recently that she found many of her French acquaintances very
self-centred. Not selfish, indeed many are very generous, but
self-centred, as though the world revolves around them. On
reflection I decided that I had noticed the same, so was this one of
the cultural differences between the French and the English I keep
trying to tease out (always recognising the danger of generalising on
the basis of a small sample)? Of course both cultures are changing
all the time but I think there is a recognisable difference here.
In this respect the
English culture taught, if not always practised, is one of
abnegation, self-subordination to the goals of the group. It is a
reason why the English, in general, have made good team players but
been less successful at individualist sports. When I was young and
playing football in France I noticed that indivudal technical ability
seemed to be prized more than efforts directed at team play. A
brass-band consultant friend, who does a lot of work in France,
recently complained that his chief difficulty was turning a
collection of very competent musicians who all considered their role
to be soloists into a cooperating band. An American friend in
Senegal, coaching basket ball teams, said that his main difficulty
was trying to get players to use team play to get close to the basket
before shooting rather than attempting highly speculative efforts
from 30 metres (which were much more appreciated than team play if
they succeeded). It is noticeable that conversations in shops are
sacrosanct, however many people are waiting to be served; first, the
server must finish his/her conversation. That is not difficult to
accept in a small village environment but may explain also why
service is so bad in large stores and chains: the idea that service
to the customer, the third party, comes first is alien. So maybe Jo
is on to something here although, as I have said, both cultures are
changing.
Immigration
That led me to think
about cultural differences in the wave of immigrants entering Europe.
Let there be no doubt, once large numbers of African and Middle
Eastern immigrants are installed in Europe there will be huge
cultural differences to be overcome and, more worryingly, the
potential for very destructive social unrest.
Two recent stories
in the press caught my eye. One was of an adolescent Afghan, housed
in a hostel in Germany, who was going hungry because he refused to
eat at a table at which women were also sitting (which was normally
the case). The other concerned African refugees (all men) housed in
a villa in a small town in Italy who were becoming disruptive in the
town. They had two major complaints; the first was that they had
nothing to do all day, the second was that they needed a cleaner to
clean the villa (African men couldn't be expected to clean it).
These are pretty
trivial examples of what can be expected to follow. A survey of
recent immigrants by a qualified agency in Germany found that around
50% were essentially unemployable, because of lack of skills and lack
of understanding of the language. These are primarily young to
middle-aged people, who may have escaped intolerable conditions, but
what is to be their future? How can they earn any sort of living,
for themselves and their families, particularly if benefits are
curtailed, outside of illegal activities of one sort or another?
Moreover they come from countries/cultures where corruption is
endemic, a way of life. And what will the reaction of the indigenous
population be to that? And what are the likely political
consequences? “Simple” cultural differences have already
resulted in numerous court cases in the UK with respect to forced
marriages and so-called “honour” killings. Add to that kind of
cultural mismatch a potent mix of unemployment, poverty and resultant
desperation and what do you get? Syrian refugees may want to return
to their original homeland if and when the conflict ends, dependent
on the regime then in place, but refugees from other areas (the large
majority) will not.
Those who have
welcomed and promoted cultural diversity have focussed on the
undoubted richness in cultural variety in narrative, song, dances and
food. But those are minor, albeit significant, elements.
Fundamental differences in terms of life expectations, assumptions on
ways of living, acceptable behaviour towards other people of either
sex and how society should be run seem to have been overlooked in
previous considerations and now need very urgently to be addressed.
True, such issues have existed before but never before in such
quantity at one time. Will the European democracies be able to cope?
There is as yet no sign of them even understanding the problems that
lie ahead, let alone preparing to do anything about any of them other
than the danger of importing terrorists. The English programme for
induction into English culture has never been anything but a horribly
bad joke but there is no reason to believe that any other European
country recognises and is equipped to deal with these issues. The
governmental humanitarian response to the influx of refugees has been
mixed but not totally negative. However, the social response could
easily become so and if, politically, Europe is to escape a lurch to
the extreme right, possibly the disintegration of the EU and who
knows what else, somebody had better come up with some answers very
quickly. Political leaders are apparently already discussing
possible futures for Syria and the surrounding region. They would do
well to direct some of their attention homewards also on questions
other than just benefits.
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